The HUD

My HUD doesn't do anything.

Check the float text over it. "Pairing… Complete at website" means you haven't finished pairing. "Setup incomplete!" means you haven't saved your character yet — click the HUD to open the Character page. "HUD sleeping" means another of your avatars is active; touch it to switch. If none of these show, reset the HUD scripts.

My HUD was handed out before the move to this website.

It won't work. Old HUDs still talk to a server that no longer exists. Get a fresh one — see Getting Started.

The target picker says "No one with a HUD is nearby" but people are here.

They may not be wearing a paired Fertility HUD, may be on a different grid's region, or one of you may have blocked the other. Your Orientation also filters who you see — set it to everyone (for example Bisexual) to check. See Targeting.

Things take a while to show up.

On regions that don't let the server message the HUD directly, you'll see "Using tick-only mode". It still works, but messages can take up to about 30 seconds.

Actions

An action I expected isn't in my Menu.

• Most actions need you to target each other (❤❤ Name ❤❤).
• They depend on the parts you each have. Check your Body Type in Dashboard → Settings.
• Anything on cooldown is listed under ⏳ Waiting.
• Force only shows when they allow force and are not targeting you back.

"Target is not on your region."

You both need to be on the same region. If one of you just teleported, wait a moment for the HUDs to catch up.

"You came a bit inside…"

You were dry — less than 1.5 ml left. Your reserve refills at 1 ml per hour. See Semen.

Cycle and pregnancy

I don't have a cycle.

You need a womb. Tick it under Body Type in Dashboard → Settings.

I can't see my Cycle prim.

It is hidden unless you are on your period, known to be pregnant, or have turned on Show me my cycle. See The Cycle prim.

We've been trying and I'm not pregnant.

You can only conceive while you are in the Fertile stage, and even then it is a chance, not a certainty — 30% per roll by default. Pregnancies are also hidden at first. See Pregnancy & Birth, including the spoilers.

My belly doesn't show.

Choose Big or Small from the pregnancy menu (click the Cycle prim). It starts showing at week 6, and only once the pregnancy is known.

How do I give birth?

Wait for "Your child is ready to be born.", then click the Cycle prim and press Start Labor. See Labor and birth.

Force and RLV

I'm stuck — I can't detach, teleport or change target.

Use SafeWord from the RLV button. It always works and clears everything. See SafeWord.

Nobody can force me.

Force is off until you tick Allow Force Interactions in Dashboard → Settings. Force Sit also needs Enable RLV Restrictions.

Account

I can't log in.

The login form uses the username you chose when you registered and your website password. There is no lockout for wrong guesses, so you can keep trying. If you've forgotten your password, touch a Fertility password reset object in-world: it gives you a one-time link that logs you in, and you can set a new password on your Dashboard. If you can't find one, ask a staff member in-world.

I want to play on another avatar.

Attach a HUD on that avatar and choose Log In with Current Account on the pairing page. Both avatars share one character. See More than one avatar.

Still stuck?

Use Contact Us. Your message automatically includes the state of your HUD, so the admins can see what is going on without you having to describe it.